In Luke 11 the disciples ask Jesus how to pray and he gives them the Lord’s prayer, which you probably heard before.
1 One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.”
2 He said to them, “When you pray, say: “‘Father, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come. 3 Give us each day our daily bread. 4 Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us. And lead us not into temptation.’”
There are several parts of this prayer that are important and that I think we sometimes miss. First he praises God and asks for the kingdom to come. I think it is important to start our prayers by focusing on God, because he deserves the respect and it helps to remind us that he is more important and greater than our problems. Then it is important to remind ourselves that we are sinners in need of forgiveness and that we need to forgive others as well. Also, when praying for ourselves we need to keep it simple, by only asking for the basics of our physical needs and for God to guide us spiritually.
Then later he goes on.
9 “So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 10 For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.
God is very good at giving gifts, and he is not looking to hide himself from us. If you need something then ask for it. If you need more wisdom or patience to deal with an issue in your life, then ask God for it, and keep on asking God for it. Just make sure to check your motives as it says in James 4:3. If you are asking for your own selfish reasons then you may need to rethink your request. But if you are asking for something for the reason of helping to further the kingdom and the gospel then God is excited to give to his children.